Real Ways To Say Thank You: Caring for Aging Parents with Heart

With Mother’s Day approaching and Father’s Day close behind, now is the perfect time to honor our moms and dads—not just with cards and gifts, but with real, meaningful action. Many of us are navigating life in the “sandwich generation,” juggling full-time jobs, raising kids, and caring for aging parents all at once. If that’s you, you’re in good company— about 23% of U.S. adults are in the same boat. 

So how can we show gratitude when time is limited and responsibilities are stacked sky high? Here are some simple, intentional ways to say “thank you” that actually make a difference:

Go Old School – Make the call

A quick 10-minute phone call can truly brighten a senior’s entire day. It doesn’t have to be deep—just connecting matters. Squeeze it in while you’re sitting in car line or commuting to work.

Be a present part of their health care

Ask them to schedule doctor visits when you’re available to attend. Your presence means a lot. While this may seem inconvenient, it can help catch small issues before they become big ones or even an emergency. It’s proactive, not just reactive—a big part of caring for aging parents.

Invite them into your everyday

Heading to the ball field with your kids? Bring a folding chair and an umbrella, and suddenly your child has another cheerleader and your parent feels included.

Make assisted living feel like home

If your parent is in a senior living community, involve them in the process of care decisions. Visit regularly, attend events together, and show up for activities. It tells them they still matter—and they absolutely do.

Let the generations connect

Encourage your teens to spend time with their grandparents. Many high schools offer community service credit for volunteer hours, and these shared moments are priceless for both generations. When we talk about caring for aging parents, it’s not always about grand gestures. Sometimes it’s the simple things—being present, listening, showing up—that speak the loudest.

To all our incredible Moms and Dads: Happy Mother’s Day, Happy Father’s Day, and thank you for all the love you’ve given. May we honor you not just with words, but with our time and our hearts. 

Let’s commit to caring for aging parents with intention, compassion, and joy.